God gave you life. He loves you so much that He gave you the ability to have everything that you can think of. Everything in the universe is available for you to have under one condition. You have to be able to control what you take advantage of or what you create. What you take advantage of or create becomes a part of your life but you have to manage it well or it (or someone) can take full control of your life. You can have a relationship but if you give your relationship all of your control then your relationship will determine your life. Everything must be in balance in order to get the most out of life. You cant give all your control to your job or your relationship or family life will suffer. Think about how you have your control spread out to the things in your life. Make sure each area gets fed or you will lose a part that is neglected. That neglected part of your life may determine your happiness or your health. So manage your life resposibly. Don't give too much to one ar...