Get Your Life Back by Allen J.

This is what I need all the people of the world to know. I am helping to be the best I can be to other people. This isn’t always received in the best way but it only shows the best that I can give. I believe in the way that I do things because I pay attention to the way that I do them. These are the ways to help. Do not try to hurt. Hurting people will only result in the worst type of situation that is left with the worst response. I need the best from the people that I give my best to in order to make the relationships that are in my life grow and develop. There is no growth in the things that work against the betterment of the situation. People try to tell me that I do not understand. I know the reality of the entire situation. Therefore, I am able to give the best response to the situation. I will not become disillusioned when people try to persuade me into accepting their idea of what is most true and correct. That isn’t the best. That is only a part of something that has better wa...

This is what I want you to know.  This is something that I do not want you to know. These people are understanding Exactly what this is.  That is exactly why there is the best that you can do. This is the reason that everyone is trying to understand. There is something about the way that you are able to do things. Allen you are the most fascinating person that is is in the world. Allen you are the best Person that can’t be explained. This is why you do the things that you do . Thus is something that you have to do in order to have the best things in life that there is to offer. Thus is exactly what I want these people to understand is that there something different with the way that you do things.

This is what we do. We are the ones who are supposed to help the people get to where they need and want to go. We are not supposed to be the people who try and make the other people feel as if they can’t make it. Take the time out of your day to look at how you treat other people. No one is the same. Look at the way the people in your life respond to you. If they aren’t responding in accord with your personality then those aren’t the people that you need in your life. I want all of you to have the best in the world, so make sure that the way that people respond to you is in the way that makes you feel not only encouraged, but empower as well.  Never let the people who love you tell you that you are not the one who knows the best for him/herself. Get yourself understood so that you know exactly how to tell the people in your life who you are. Never let them tell you that you aren’t who you know that you are. And never let them have to assume your character/ intentions. Be the most s...

We are in the times where the good  blessings will come  from God. God has so many things in store for us. This is what will happen. Everyone will love one another. There is a time coming where we will have to see the way that God wants us to see them. We will become better people. Nothing is going to happen until the person who created everything sends us a message. The message will come in the best way possible.  We will know when this happens. There are the good things and there will be better things to come. So many people will have the answers to their problems. God hasn’t left us behind. God will come to the aid of those who need Him most. Everyone will see how God does things. I am not a person who doesn’t understand. I know God. God is better than anyone could ever imagine. I have seen the things that He does. He is the only person who could have made my life better. God is real. Never let anyone tell you that God isn’t the person that you know that He is.  G...

This is never the way to do your life: Never try and give the other people something that isn’t the way they need it. We are one! There is a way to give the people in life the things that they need to survive. They need the best encouragement that coincides with everything that they are trying to do with their lives. I am not going to give the person who wants to be a dentist advice of the person who wants to be a police officer. They need separate types of advice. This is why I have chosen to give the best advice to the people who need it according to their different situations and expected outcomes. They need the understandings that make sense to their particular personalities. Be the best at giving the best to people. Don’t try and turn someone off by trying to make them see things in a way that isn’t the way that they need to see them. Be good to your brothers and sisters. Never forget that it’s not just you in the situation,  THEY MATTER! We are ONE, and as ONE we will grow......

This is the best that I can give. There are the things that I can give that help make everything better. I am not the best but I know what is better. I am going to always give the best that I can to give the best to make things better. Nothing is as good as I can make it. I have to figure out how to make things better. Never give up on the way you do things. Things have to be better. This is not the best way to say this but never love the worst things in life...LOVE THE THINGS THAT ARE BETTER! People will always try and make things worse. The best thing to do is to stay on your path. Don’t let the people in your life make you lose the way that you have to go in your life in order to accomplish everything that you need in order to accomplish your goals. This is how you make things better. Be the best at making things better in your life. -Allen J.

God always upholds His promises to me. No matter how aggravating and difficult He may be at times, He always follows through and produces exactly what He explained would be the best things (whatever they may be) needed...Whatever the case, eventually He will make sure that I have what I need and/or get where I need to go to not only grow me and develop me, but to help me be satisfied with  how everything lines up with my goals and intended outcomes. He fully explains whatever needs explaining in the situation(s), in His best way as well as THE  best way possible in order for me to have the most detailed and factual conclusions, understandings and truths of the matter of everything and anything in reality that wasn't understood, nor the problems that may have arisen in my life as well as in LIFE overall ! - Allen

Whenever I just meet someone and they tell me that they follow me on all my social media I become very uneasy as well as cautious. The reason is because people tend to take the things that I post anyway but the correct way. I completely understand why people authorize themselves to assume someone else’s character as well as their motives and intentions, it’s because there are unbelievable amounts of people out there who mislead people into thinking that they are someone they aren’t . But, people tend to make these generalizations about who I am as a person just off off a few of my photos and certain things that I’ve posted. THAT ISN’T REALISTIC!!!! Even though every single thing that I post is true and all of it is my life in reality, defining my overall character by who I associate with or who I know or whoever is a family member of mine is wrong...and it isn’t fair to me at all. In other words, I’m held accountable to the assumptions and expectations of the observer rather than the ...

For those of you who still have both of your parents, cherish each moment with them because one day they will be gone! When you lose one parent you come to the realization that one day you will lose the other and really be alone in this world 🌎 unless you choose to get married. No one can love you to the capacity that your parents love you. No one ever will. Love them and care for them because there isn’t a person on this planet that will have your back like the ones who gave you life. - Allen

I’ve had so much personal growth over the years. The more you mature the more you accept your life and yourself for exactly what it is. You can talk about the good, the bad and the ugly without a problem because it’s your reality and it’s what makes you who you are. No regrets because what I didn’t know, I know now. What I didn’t know how to do, I know how to now. What I like, I keep doing. What I don’t like, I stop doing and can do different. And most of all, what isn’t good for me, I don’t do. I’m more in control. It makes me feel powerful because I control my consequences in life by making the right choices and decisions. Everything that we are and everything that our lives have become are direct consequences of the choices and decisions that WE have made in our lives. The only way to change your life is to change the choices and decisions that you make according to the consequences that they carry. The future awaits you. What does yours look like? It all depends on the choices and...

Every time I think about the reality of life and God I think “WTF!”. He didn’t equip any of us with the tools needed to not make any mistakes therefore we have to make mistakes and endure pain in order to reach a point where we have the tools and understanding we need so that we don’t make mistakes anymore. So life is about 50%good and 50% bad. The bad is what you go through while learning and the good is what you go through with understanding. Why couldn’t He give us understanding our whole lives so that we could get the fullness of what life has to offer? That always baffles me. Many of us die without understanding. But does understanding even matter if the person is satisfied? No it doesn’t matter because in truth, satisfaction is the only thing that matters in life. Having been satisfied with the life that you are living and have lived is the only thing that matters. That’s all you got because after that there is no more. You only get one life. And with that life you have to satis...

 As much as I do for others and don’t receive in return doesn’t make me want to stop doing or to not be a good person. I will always be a good person to other people because that is in part what I have chosen to do with my life. I have two choices, to either be of service  or to be a selfish person. I choose to be of service because I choose positive exemplifications in life rather than negative. It’s just choosing between constructive and destructive behaviors even if the constructive behavior that you exemplify doesn’t yield positive results to you directly but only to the person who receives from your behavior. Sometimes in life we may not receive what we think we should for being good to other people. As long as what we have done or are doing is helping someone else then everything is exactly what it’s supposed to be. That’s exactly what it is.