Whenever I just meet someone and they tell me that they follow me on all my social media I become very uneasy as well as cautious. The reason is because people tend to take the things that I post anyway but the correct way. I completely understand why people authorize themselves to assume someone else’s character as well as their motives and intentions, it’s because there are unbelievable amounts of people out there who mislead people into thinking that they are someone they aren’t . But, people tend to make these generalizations about who I am as a person just off off a few of my photos and certain things that I’ve posted. THAT ISN’T REALISTIC!!!! Even though every single thing that I post is true and all of it is my life in reality, defining my overall character by who I associate with or who I know or whoever is a family member of mine is wrong...and it isn’t fair to me at all. In other words, I’m held accountable to the assumptions and expectations of the observer rather than the reality of my life exemplified with good intentions shared by myself, the person who exemplifies . People have certain expectations that stem from things I have posted. Let me get this clear, Just because I know and may be tied to many celebrities does not mean that I have the money that they have. I am not those people! Stop expecting me to be who I’m not. I am everything that I SAY THAT I AM! I am not what you want me to be nor whomever that fictitious character that you have created in your mind is. I am me. I am the person that I represent 10000 percent. I in no way am a misleading person nor a liar. I tell it like it is. It’s people who expect or assume things that aren’t my reality. That is not right. Because if I do not meet your expectations then you will choose to disrespect or abuse me...when it was your fault not mine. So for anyone who reads this and who follows me, please take into consideration that no one can understand the true essence of someone’s character only by observing bits and pieces of his/her social media. Only the person who lives his/her own life knows exactly what his/her life consists of and their intentions which ultimately defines his/her own character. ALWAYS ASK WHAT YOU WANNA KNOW AND NEVER ASSUME WHY PEOPLE DO OR DON’T DO THINGS....OH AND NEVER MAKE GENERALIZATIONS ABOUT ANYONES CHARACTER UNLESS YOU KNOW THEM WELL ENOUGH TO THE POINT OF KNOWING THEIR INTENTIONS! Thanks-Allen J Sardie
Sometimes in life we get the things that are not best. Those things are meant for us to not be indulging in unless they are the initial part of what makes us not have them later on. We aren't supposed to be indulging in those things after the situations that make us understand, after being burned within the way we have to prevent the entire fire from engulfing our lives , shows us that those things aren't to be a part of what it takes to make us satisfied with what we are to have. We understand that those things aren't for us to have. Baring guilt comes from re-entering the situations that taught us not to have specific things with the delusion that we can indulge or choose once again those things, or that thing that isn't for us to have. We are left with this fear that the consequences that we once suffered would somehow return. That fear is GUILT! We already understand that the same decision to choose or indulge in whatever gave unsatisfying results prior will only b...
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