THE GUILT!

 Sometimes in life we get the things that are not best. Those things are meant for us to not be indulging in unless they are the initial part of what makes us not have them later on. We aren't supposed to be indulging in those things after the situations that make us understand, after being burned within the way we have to prevent the entire fire from engulfing our lives , shows us that those things aren't to be a part of what it takes to make us satisfied with what we are to have. We understand that those things aren't for us to have. Baring guilt comes from re-entering the situations that taught us not to have specific things with the delusion that we can indulge or choose once again those things, or that thing that isn't for us to have. We are left with this fear that the consequences that we once suffered would somehow return. That fear is GUILT! We already understand that the same decision to choose or indulge in whatever gave unsatisfying results prior will only bring about fail.  Yet once again, we made the same decision again, hoping( and fearing at the same time ) the results would not be what we end up with at the end. Only because the exact response or consequence is the exact result of what happens when we choose whatever in what situation is at hand, does the same result return ,leaving us with the disappointment that once propelled us into whatever action became the necessary way to overcome the situations before. We end up realizing that the only way to not get the results that we don't want in our lives , we have to change the choices and decisions that are to be those that come within the situations that we face in life. We have to make the decisions that bring us satisfaction. That is the only way we will begin to take control of how we satisfy ourselves in life. It may take a few times to learn that it's not something that we can convince ourselves to work out when the past shows us that the same decisions only makes us miserable... we learn that we have to change them.