Sometimes in life we get the things that are not best. Those things are meant for us to not be indulging in unless they are the initial part of what makes us not have them later on. We aren't supposed to be indulging in those things after the situations that make us understand, after being burned within the way we have to prevent the entire fire from engulfing our lives , shows us that those things aren't to be a part of what it takes to make us satisfied with what we are to have. We understand that those things aren't for us to have. Baring guilt comes from re-entering the situations that taught us not to have specific things with the delusion that we can indulge or choose once again those things, or that thing that isn't for us to have. We are left with this fear that the consequences that we once suffered would somehow return. That fear is GUILT! We already understand that the same decision to choose or indulge in whatever gave unsatisfying results prior will only bring about fail. Yet once again, we made the same decision again, hoping( and fearing at the same time ) the results would not be what we end up with at the end. Only because the exact response or consequence is the exact result of what happens when we choose whatever in what situation is at hand, does the same result return ,leaving us with the disappointment that once propelled us into whatever action became the necessary way to overcome the situations before. We end up realizing that the only way to not get the results that we don't want in our lives , we have to change the choices and decisions that are to be those that come within the situations that we face in life. We have to make the decisions that bring us satisfaction. That is the only way we will begin to take control of how we satisfy ourselves in life. It may take a few times to learn that it's not something that we can convince ourselves to work out when the past shows us that the same decisions only makes us miserable... we learn that we have to change them.
Are you 100 percent sure within what it takes to make a valid fact exact when you know that the way that you are to other people , or the people in your life , more/most helpful, rather than harmful to those people? Have you ever taken the time to ask, “what is it that you need”? Have you ever asked, “is there any way I could help you get one step closer to achieving everything that you intend, when it comes to how you intend your life to be ultimately”? If you concern yourself with others only to try and build a way to create a false sense of a person as a person who isn’t the best , then you are one of the harmful people in all of the lives that you influenced improperly.Each and everyone deserves the functional relationships in his/her life. No one will ever succeed in life as best as they could if we hold on to the people who only want to criticize us and tear us apart for the things that we may not be best at among all the things that we do , when we do many things in our liv...
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