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EVERYONE ISN'T THE ENEMY!

Sometimes I have to check myself and make myself realize that not everyone is trying to hurt me. I have this silent paranoia in me that comes from the people who have hurt me. I don't want to live the rest of my life in fear or defensive just because there were people in my past who tried to hurt and take advantage of me. Everyone isn't the enemy. There are people in your life who genially love you and that do have your best interest at heart. Remove the paranoia in you that tells you that not no one will be able to treat you like you treat them. Of course no one will treat you like you treat them because they are not you. They don't think and act as you do they think and act as they do! In the words of T.D. Jakes , "some people may be able to love you at only a 10 gallon level, when you are able to love them on a 1000 gallon level." Just because you are able to love them more than, or in a way different than they can love you,  it doesn't mean that that person doesn't love you. All it means is that that person can't love you like you love them. Stop being so defensive. As long as the people in your life aren't disrespecting or hurting you, then those people aren't the enemy. -Allen J.

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