Throughout life we tent to open ourselves up to many people. We meet people at our jobs, at the local market, social media, etc. We tell them our stories. We start to expose the things that define us as indeviduals. Our intentions are usually in the right place and we hope that the ones who we are getting to know will have those same intentions. This is the part of life where we are taking huge chances. Not everyone has our best interests. Not everyone wants you or me to succesd. Evil people do exist. There are many people out there who's main intention is to hurt other people. Everyone wants or expects something from the person or people in their lives. The hard part is trying to figure out what exactly is it that the people in our lives want from us. We know what we want and what it is that we expect from them, but what exactly is it that they request from us in the relationships that we have with them? Opportunistic people only involve other people in their lives for self benefit in a way that if that person does not have what the opportunist is looking for, there will be no relationship. We also call these types of people USERS! Some people only want to be a part of your life to use you for the things that they need or want at the time. Usually it's either sex or money. Being a person of integrity usually is the target on the back for an opertunistic person to prey upon. People who give of themselves freely for all the right reasons tend to be exactly what users and manipulators look for. It's an easy opportunity for a user to get freely the things that they should be providing for themselves. It isn't until the giving person has no more that the user will remove or turn their back on the person who give them so. Not everyone means you well. Make sure that you are completely aware of the things that people want from you. Never end up in situations where you are taking on responsibilities of other people who should be providing for themselves. Give what you can. Trust me God will bless you for that in which you give freely. But do not let the devil and the people who pattern themselves behind his behavior manipulate you out of the blessings that God intended only for you. You don't have to give your lives away to people who never seem to have enough. Learn how to say NO sometimes. And learn how to pinpoint the intentions and motives of the people around you. If you don't know, just try paying close attention to the track record of the relationship. How much have you invested into that person or people? How much does the people in your life invest in you? Be smart not stupid, and don't let people who don't mean you well take so much from you that you have nothing left to give.
Are you 100 percent sure within what it takes to make a valid fact exact when you know that the way that you are to other people , or the people in your life , more/most helpful, rather than harmful to those people? Have you ever taken the time to ask, “what is it that you need”? Have you ever asked, “is there any way I could help you get one step closer to achieving everything that you intend, when it comes to how you intend your life to be ultimately”? If you concern yourself with others only to try and build a way to create a false sense of a person as a person who isn’t the best , then you are one of the harmful people in all of the lives that you influenced improperly.Each and everyone deserves the functional relationships in his/her life. No one will ever succeed in life as best as they could if we hold on to the people who only want to criticize us and tear us apart for the things that we may not be best at among all the things that we do , when we do many things in our liv...
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