There are people in our lives who are the exact definition of what it means to be who they truly are in our lives. These people live up to the positions and titles that we intend them to have. We are in control of making sure that the people we want in our lives are exactly what best defines the position that we give to them. We are the ones who have to make sure that every one of our goals are met. The relationship goals that you set for yourself are just as important as any other goal that is a part of what you intend to have your life hopefully be in result as you produce what goes directly in accord , eventually developing into exactly what you intend. These are the ways to adhere. You are the self that you are. The self that you are is a person who is someone to someone else. Are you defining the titles, roles and positions that you have in the lives of the people that are a part of your life. You are the person who has to adhere to the place that is evident in the lives of the people who love you most. Every responsibility and duty that creates the exact understanding of the positions that you not only are born into, but also the positions that you choose to become obligated to as you establish substantial as well as non- substantial relationships with the people you meet throughout your life. This is not only about you! It takes two or more people to establish any relationship. Whenever that is evident , the two people work in accord with the titles that they intend to produce. The expectation of the intended outcome is what propels the individuals towards that in which will become the actions that most specifically express the desire to earn the person’s acceptance into the position that we intend them have in our lives. They have to agree, so that there is a mutual understanding of the intention that is that with integrity as the main key used as both/more best prove to one another that each is an asset and not a liability in each other’s life overall, that there is a possibility that a very substantial relationship will evolve . The mutual understanding will help each individual know and understand exactly who each other is in each other’s lives. We do the best to be the best to one another , never intentionally bringing destruction nor destructive behaviors into the relationship, removing any damaging behaviors/toxic behaviors that may be within ourselves. We will look to the reality of what it takes in order to best define the positions that we have. In time each individual will have no choice but to realize that we are exactly who we are and should be in each other’s lives. We have earned the positions that we have.
Sometimes in life we get the things that are not best. Those things are meant for us to not be indulging in unless they are the initial part of what makes us not have them later on. We aren't supposed to be indulging in those things after the situations that make us understand, after being burned within the way we have to prevent the entire fire from engulfing our lives , shows us that those things aren't to be a part of what it takes to make us satisfied with what we are to have. We understand that those things aren't for us to have. Baring guilt comes from re-entering the situations that taught us not to have specific things with the delusion that we can indulge or choose once again those things, or that thing that isn't for us to have. We are left with this fear that the consequences that we once suffered would somehow return. That fear is GUILT! We already understand that the same decision to choose or indulge in whatever gave unsatisfying results prior will only b...
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