Sometimes we put ourselves completely out on a limb trying to show the world how much love we have to give. Sometimes we put so much effort into trying to make something work that we find ourselves in over our heads physically as well as emotionally. We pour our hearts out to the ones we think deserve our love and the ones who we feel like we can trust. We want the best. We invest so much of our time and energy into trying to make someone love us who is incapable of doing so. We are honest but the other person is dishonest. We know in our heart that something is wrong but we go against ourselves in hope that it will all change. We aren't getting what we give out. We aren't getting that same time and energy in return from the person who is absorbing all that we are giving. Things get to the point where we try to demand that same treatment that we give out. Our hearts become broken because we feel taken advantage of and we feel we aren't being appreciated at all. Broken hearts will heal. No matter how hurt you are, no matter if you feel like you can't go on, YOU WILL SURVIVE! Pick yourself up each day and smile. Trust God that you will be ok. Pray and ask God to guide you through the pain that you are feeling. Surround yourself with those who matter most. Stop beating yourself up because someone wasn't able to love you for the beautiful you that you are. Move on no matter how hard it is because that same love that you were giving to the wrong person is still needed to love yourself. You have to love yourself even if you feel like you are nothing because the one you chose didn't choose you back. It's okay to be hurt. It's ok to cry and feel vulnerable. The right person is waiting for you to come out of your pain. There is someone out there who will be willing to love you for exactly who you are flaws and all. That person is the person who deserves the love you have to give. So don't be angry, be disappointed. Take it easy on yourself and be strong and trust in God because a broken heart will heal. - Allen J.
Sometimes in life we get the things that are not best. Those things are meant for us to not be indulging in unless they are the initial part of what makes us not have them later on. We aren't supposed to be indulging in those things after the situations that make us understand, after being burned within the way we have to prevent the entire fire from engulfing our lives , shows us that those things aren't to be a part of what it takes to make us satisfied with what we are to have. We understand that those things aren't for us to have. Baring guilt comes from re-entering the situations that taught us not to have specific things with the delusion that we can indulge or choose once again those things, or that thing that isn't for us to have. We are left with this fear that the consequences that we once suffered would somehow return. That fear is GUILT! We already understand that the same decision to choose or indulge in whatever gave unsatisfying results prior will only b...
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