Life is like a roller coaster. Sounds a bit cliché but it's true. We all go through ups and downs. The older we get the more equipped we are to handle the downs. We also learn to appreciate the ups when they come. Sometimes we are faced with so many changes in our lives at once that the down period seems to last forever and we feel that we are drowning in our own misery. We don't want to get out of bed. We don't have to get out of bed if we don't want to . We may need to sit there and think about what has transpired. Don't force yourself to be ok if you are not. Ask God to help you when you are down. What is meant for us to overcome will not last forever. As long as your doctor doesn't say you are dying, you have a chance to get through anything. See I recently went through something in my own life that had me almost paralyzed emotionally. I couldn't get out of bed. I chose to stay in bed till the storm cleared. And guess what, IT DID!!!!! While in bed, I got a chance to look at my life. I got the opportunity to see the things that I can change, want to change and want to remain the same. I knew what I needed to do next. I wasn't stuck in misery anymore. I knew my way out. See I am a strong believer that anything can be overcome. I have been through so much to have that much faith in it all. Talk about what you are going through. Be honest with yourself and others because trust and believe me no one living has a perfect life. No one doesn't go through ups and downs. We all have them. We all can get through the downs if we stop telling ourselves that we shouldn't be going through them. We make mistakes and need to correct them so that we can be brought to a place of joy. The only way to be brought to that place is for us to feel the pain of that mistake we made and to learn from them. It's all a part of life. Once you accept that ups and down are just a part of life, no matter how long your down period may be, you'll be so much stronger and a force to be reckoned with. You are meant to be a survivor. You are meant to overcome. You are meant to do life, not have life do you. - Allen J.
Are you 100 percent sure within what it takes to make a valid fact exact when you know that the way that you are to other people , or the people in your life , more/most helpful, rather than harmful to those people? Have you ever taken the time to ask, “what is it that you need”? Have you ever asked, “is there any way I could help you get one step closer to achieving everything that you intend, when it comes to how you intend your life to be ultimately”? If you concern yourself with others only to try and build a way to create a false sense of a person as a person who isn’t the best , then you are one of the harmful people in all of the lives that you influenced improperly.Each and everyone deserves the functional relationships in his/her life. No one will ever succeed in life as best as they could if we hold on to the people who only want to criticize us and tear us apart for the things that we may not be best at among all the things that we do , when we do many things in our liv...
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