Life is like a roller coaster. Sounds a bit cliché but it's true. We all go through ups and downs. The older we get the more equipped we are to handle the downs. We also learn to appreciate the ups when they come. Sometimes we are faced with so many changes in our lives at once that the down period seems to last forever and we feel that we are drowning in our own misery. We don't want to get out of bed. We don't have to get out of bed if we don't want to . We may need to sit there and think about what has transpired. Don't force yourself to be ok if you are not. Ask God to help you when you are down. What is meant for us to overcome will not last forever. As long as your doctor doesn't say you are dying, you have a chance to get through anything. See I recently went through something in my own life that had me almost paralyzed emotionally. I couldn't get out of bed. I chose to stay in bed till the storm cleared. And guess what, IT DID!!!!! While in bed, I got a chance to look at my life. I got the opportunity to see the things that I can change, want to change and want to remain the same. I knew what I needed to do next. I wasn't stuck in misery anymore. I knew my way out. See I am a strong believer that anything can be overcome. I have been through so much to have that much faith in it all. Talk about what you are going through. Be honest with yourself and others because trust and believe me no one living has a perfect life. No one doesn't go through ups and downs. We all have them. We all can get through the downs if we stop telling ourselves that we shouldn't be going through them. We make mistakes and need to correct them so that we can be brought to a place of joy. The only way to be brought to that place is for us to feel the pain of that mistake we made and to learn from them. It's all a part of life. Once you accept that ups and down are just a part of life, no matter how long your down period may be, you'll be so much stronger and a force to be reckoned with. You are meant to be a survivor. You are meant to overcome. You are meant to do life, not have life do you. - Allen J.
Sometimes in life we get the things that are not best. Those things are meant for us to not be indulging in unless they are the initial part of what makes us not have them later on. We aren't supposed to be indulging in those things after the situations that make us understand, after being burned within the way we have to prevent the entire fire from engulfing our lives , shows us that those things aren't to be a part of what it takes to make us satisfied with what we are to have. We understand that those things aren't for us to have. Baring guilt comes from re-entering the situations that taught us not to have specific things with the delusion that we can indulge or choose once again those things, or that thing that isn't for us to have. We are left with this fear that the consequences that we once suffered would somehow return. That fear is GUILT! We already understand that the same decision to choose or indulge in whatever gave unsatisfying results prior will only b...
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