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KICK BAD HABITS AND AVOID TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS!!!!

How do you define the word "friendship"? I have had to redefine that word many times in my life. What is a friend to you? What makes you all frieds? What does a
person do that shows you that you are truly friends? For years I got it very wrong and thought that my friends were the ones who I looked cute with when we went out together. Or that I drank alcohol with until the wee hours of the morning knowing that I had important things to do. True friends are not toxic to you. Toxic friends are the ones who will allow you to do things that they know are not good for neither you nor them. Toxic friends will let you get drunk or high. Toxic friends will push you to cheat on your spouse. A toxic friend will never tell you when you are doing something wrong. But a true friend will. There are things that you know you shouldn't be doing. Habits you know you need to break. But how can you stop doing the things that are hurting you if the ones misguiding and truly hurting you are the ones you consider friends. Redifine the word "friendship", drop your old friends, make some new ones and watch your new friends encourage you to be a better YOU. Not set you up for failure. -Allen J.

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