There are people who have been in your life who have already proven to you that they love you. Those are the people that you should be focusing on and building stronger relationships with rather than running behind the people who don't want to be a part of your life. It takes a lot of time and effort to build a relationship. It takes a lot of energy. It takes a lot of courage. Building new relationships are hard because you don't have evidence that the relationship will even last or whether or not you are wasting your time or not...or will you be hurt as a result. There are people who are already in your corner who have already proven worthy of your time and effort. So those are the people worth a little more investing. Do not invest a lot of time and effort into a relationship if you are the only one in the relationship trying to make it work. You will get hurt and feel cheated. There is nothing more beautiful than getting closer with the people who have always had your back. And there is nothing worse than realizing that you wasted your time on someone who would not accept you for you and didn't want to be a part of your life. Why struggle so hard to make new friends when the ones you already have are enough? Don't cut yourself off from building new relationships but don't cut off the relationships you already have trying to build new ones either. You have to balance your relationships evenly or they will dissolve. You have to put time and effort into them. You are growing spiritually. You are evolving so much that an old relationship can either get stronger or dissolve and comes to an end. Having to end a relationship is OK as long as you understand why it ended. Maybe it was toxic or maybe you just grew apart. Whatever it may be you will grow from it and understand a little bit more about yourself. Weigh your options. Step outside of yourself and think about your relationships today. Appreciate the ones that you know in your heart are priceless. -ALLEN J.
Sometimes in life we get the things that are not best. Those things are meant for us to not be indulging in unless they are the initial part of what makes us not have them later on. We aren't supposed to be indulging in those things after the situations that make us understand, after being burned within the way we have to prevent the entire fire from engulfing our lives , shows us that those things aren't to be a part of what it takes to make us satisfied with what we are to have. We understand that those things aren't for us to have. Baring guilt comes from re-entering the situations that taught us not to have specific things with the delusion that we can indulge or choose once again those things, or that thing that isn't for us to have. We are left with this fear that the consequences that we once suffered would somehow return. That fear is GUILT! We already understand that the same decision to choose or indulge in whatever gave unsatisfying results prior will only b...
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