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HOLD ON TO THE ONES WHO HAVE YOUR BEST INTEREST

We all have done things in our lives that we are not proud of. We all have those things that we have done that make us feel very guilty. Sometimes these are the things that hold us back in our lives because we are so consumed with guilt that we just can not move on. We become crippled to our past mistakes. We know in our hearts that we have learned from the mistakes that caused us so much pain but the consequences from those exact mistakes are what holds us in a prison in life. We wonder will we ever be able to get out our own prisons. We wonder will anyone ever be able to love us flaws and all. The truth is that we have people all around us who are willing to help us and are taking the time out their day to help us move on. We are usually the ones who block the advice that could free us from our own pain. We don't want to hear the truth because the truth hurts. We don't want to face the music. We have to stop letting fear of rejection and the fear of being exposed hold us back. We made it this far and we are not going anywhere anytime soon so why not take a chance and do the things that may pain us to do to get out of the mess that holds us back. The people that tell you what you need to hear and not what you want to hear are the answer. These are the people who are able to see exactly what is holding us back and are sent by God to tell us a way out. Don't take these people for granted and stop pushing them away. Hold on to the ones who have your best interest. - Allen J.

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Unknown said…
Very well written
October 16, 2015 at 1:10 AM
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