Regret and shame are two feelings destroy a lot of people. They are feelings that greatly affect your actions. When a person is full of regret and shame, that person is extremely vulnerable. Problems seem to be magnified...because they are. Nothing seems to be going right. It is hard to find gratitude for anything in life. Life becomes an extremely difficult task rather than an amazing adventure. Humility is lost and is replaced with self centered behaviors. All you start to think about is what you need and want. What you must have. What people need to do for you and how life isn't fair. You are consumed with the "should haves, could haves and would haves". The truth of the matter is that you are exactly where you need to be and you have everything you need to have to get you where you need to go. Everything happens for a reason. God does not make mistakes. Everyone is either going through or coming out of some situation. Do not believe that you are the only one going through, because YOU ARE NOT ALONE! You must go through to come out of anything. This is how you become grateful for everything that you have in your life. This is how you realize just how blessed you are. You begin realizing how fortunate you are to have made it through. The ability to appreciate "the little things" brings you so much joy once you come out of what you have been going through. Your relationship with God becomes stronger. Always remember, what you have God want's you to have and what you don't have God doesn't want you to have. Where you are is where God wants you to be. Where you are not is where God doesn't not want you, until He wants you there. Stop stressing and expecting, and humble yourselves because your life isn't over, there is always time to get everything you want. Stop rushing your life! - Allen J.
Sometimes in life we get the things that are not best. Those things are meant for us to not be indulging in unless they are the initial part of what makes us not have them later on. We aren't supposed to be indulging in those things after the situations that make us understand, after being burned within the way we have to prevent the entire fire from engulfing our lives , shows us that those things aren't to be a part of what it takes to make us satisfied with what we are to have. We understand that those things aren't for us to have. Baring guilt comes from re-entering the situations that taught us not to have specific things with the delusion that we can indulge or choose once again those things, or that thing that isn't for us to have. We are left with this fear that the consequences that we once suffered would somehow return. That fear is GUILT! We already understand that the same decision to choose or indulge in whatever gave unsatisfying results prior will only b...
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