In life we tend to beat ourselves up so much. We focus on the should've , could've, would've rather than the can and will. Don't drain all your energy thinking about how things could or should be, what you could've done or should've done. Focus on what you can do and what you will do. The past is the past. Own it. It's part of your story. Embrace your mistakes and let those mistakes be the drive in making better choices. This is the only way you can grow in life. Sho up for the life that you have now instead of living in the life that you once had. That life is dead to God. Of course you remember because you know I. Your hear you could have done better. But don't focus on that. Just start today and do better. Be the best you that you can be. You can decide right now to be exactly the reason you have always dreamed of. You can put all those bad choice making behaviors behind you and be a person of integrity. Do the right things for the right reasons. Let what God has in store for you take you by surprise. Everything is laid out for you but you have to show up for it and stop living in your past mistakes. Love yourself enough to give yourself s chance at a new life. Open up your heart and ears and eyes to what you have that you took for granted. Let gratitude be your drive as well. Negative thinking only keeps you stuck. It doesn't allow you to grow. Growth is all around you if you just open your eyes and plant the seeds in fertile ground. Make sure what you are going to do is going to work. Play the tape all the way through to the end in your mind before you chose anything. Let God guide you as you do the work. Watch and see your life unfold as you climb to success in all the right ways. Trust in God and give yourself a break. -Allen J.
Sometimes in life we get the things that are not best. Those things are meant for us to not be indulging in unless they are the initial part of what makes us not have them later on. We aren't supposed to be indulging in those things after the situations that make us understand, after being burned within the way we have to prevent the entire fire from engulfing our lives , shows us that those things aren't to be a part of what it takes to make us satisfied with what we are to have. We understand that those things aren't for us to have. Baring guilt comes from re-entering the situations that taught us not to have specific things with the delusion that we can indulge or choose once again those things, or that thing that isn't for us to have. We are left with this fear that the consequences that we once suffered would somehow return. That fear is GUILT! We already understand that the same decision to choose or indulge in whatever gave unsatisfying results prior will only b...
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