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TRUE FRIENDS VS FAKE FRIENDS

There is a difference between a true friend and a fake friend. True friends are the ones who bring out the best in you. Bringing out the best in you does not mean accompanying you in the destruction of yourself. True friends tell you when you are hurting yourself as we as hurting them. True friends have listened and gotten to know you well enough to know what your desires in life are as well as who you are as a person. They try to find ways for you to see what you need to do to get the things you desire and be the person that you want to be in the most responsible and constructive manner. They do not tell you to sell drugs because you want to be rich. They do not give you drugs or liquor because you are stressed out. They give you words of wisdom and encourage strength instead. The people you surround yourself with play a huge role in who you become. Even though it is up to you and how you choose your battles, they are influences. You have to watch and pay attention to those around you. They may want to have your best interest but how can hey if they don't have their own best interest? Be smart in who you surround yourself with because God wants to see you win. He doesn't want to see you chose hell on earth by allowing yourself to become easily influenced by someone who doesn't really have your back. The people who love you want you to be better, not cramp your style. Look at your own behavior as well and see what you do that is self constructive as well as self destructive. Do you enciurage others to be their best or worst?  Are you helping give life or are you helping the devil take someone else's life away? -Allen J.

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