Etiquette and decorum is defined usually as the proper way of doing things in a dignified manner. There is an etiquette in everything you do in life. Having self respect means that you are conscious of yourself and what you do. You are also conscious of how you "come off" to other people in regards to how they treat you. You want to give what you want in return. Most of the time we all want some for of respect when dealing with other people. The only way to get respect is to give it. So in communication, we must follow an etiquette. We must be able to pinpoint our feelings and emotions to the most exact way possible and express those feelings to others in the most clear and concise way possible. Doing so gives the other person the ability to treat us accordingly. Ever wonder why you feel neglected or mistreated? Maybe it's because you have not expressed enough exactly how you feel to someone else which in return they treated you only to the extent of what you did express. To make it simple, you kinda mislead them. You "gave off" a false of vague sense of self. You have to be clear and concise in expressing your feelings. You have to be aware of how you come off to others at all times because what you give you get back in return. This also means that you are to stop and listen to the other person in communicating. That person will tell you exactly how he/she feels about you or the situation at hand. By listening, you have the opportunity to tell that person whether he/she may be wrong or right in their view of that subject. It also gives you the opportunity to admit whether you were wrong or right. You have to remain completely honest in everything you do or you will not be treated accordingly. This also means honesty within yourself so that you can promote self growth. The whole dynamic of communication is lead by etiquette. There is proper and improper communication. Proper communication gives the best results. Be patient, be mindful. Be considerate and listen to the people that are around you and treat them accordingly so that you can get that same treatment. If you want to be taken seriously in life you must be self aware enough to u set stand how you come off to people. The way you walk, the way you talk, the way you conduct yourself every minute of your life sybolizes how much etiquette you have. Every step you take be consults of what you're doing because there is an etiquette in everything you do. There are things that are considered proper and improper behaviors. Which one would you want to be known to display.....because what you give you get back! -Allen J.
Are you 100 percent sure within what it takes to make a valid fact exact when you know that the way that you are to other people , or the people in your life , more/most helpful, rather than harmful to those people? Have you ever taken the time to ask, “what is it that you need”? Have you ever asked, “is there any way I could help you get one step closer to achieving everything that you intend, when it comes to how you intend your life to be ultimately”? If you concern yourself with others only to try and build a way to create a false sense of a person as a person who isn’t the best , then you are one of the harmful people in all of the lives that you influenced improperly.Each and everyone deserves the functional relationships in his/her life. No one will ever succeed in life as best as they could if we hold on to the people who only want to criticize us and tear us apart for the things that we may not be best at among all the things that we do , when we do many things in our liv...
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