Etiquette and decorum is defined usually as the proper way of doing things in a dignified manner. There is an etiquette in everything you do in life. Having self respect means that you are conscious of yourself and what you do. You are also conscious of how you "come off" to other people in regards to how they treat you. You want to give what you want in return. Most of the time we all want some for of respect when dealing with other people. The only way to get respect is to give it. So in communication, we must follow an etiquette. We must be able to pinpoint our feelings and emotions to the most exact way possible and express those feelings to others in the most clear and concise way possible. Doing so gives the other person the ability to treat us accordingly. Ever wonder why you feel neglected or mistreated? Maybe it's because you have not expressed enough exactly how you feel to someone else which in return they treated you only to the extent of what you did express. To make it simple, you kinda mislead them. You "gave off" a false of vague sense of self. You have to be clear and concise in expressing your feelings. You have to be aware of how you come off to others at all times because what you give you get back in return. This also means that you are to stop and listen to the other person in communicating. That person will tell you exactly how he/she feels about you or the situation at hand. By listening, you have the opportunity to tell that person whether he/she may be wrong or right in their view of that subject. It also gives you the opportunity to admit whether you were wrong or right. You have to remain completely honest in everything you do or you will not be treated accordingly. This also means honesty within yourself so that you can promote self growth. The whole dynamic of communication is lead by etiquette. There is proper and improper communication. Proper communication gives the best results. Be patient, be mindful. Be considerate and listen to the people that are around you and treat them accordingly so that you can get that same treatment. If you want to be taken seriously in life you must be self aware enough to u set stand how you come off to people. The way you walk, the way you talk, the way you conduct yourself every minute of your life sybolizes how much etiquette you have. Every step you take be consults of what you're doing because there is an etiquette in everything you do. There are things that are considered proper and improper behaviors. Which one would you want to be known to display.....because what you give you get back! -Allen J.
Sometimes in life we get the things that are not best. Those things are meant for us to not be indulging in unless they are the initial part of what makes us not have them later on. We aren't supposed to be indulging in those things after the situations that make us understand, after being burned within the way we have to prevent the entire fire from engulfing our lives , shows us that those things aren't to be a part of what it takes to make us satisfied with what we are to have. We understand that those things aren't for us to have. Baring guilt comes from re-entering the situations that taught us not to have specific things with the delusion that we can indulge or choose once again those things, or that thing that isn't for us to have. We are left with this fear that the consequences that we once suffered would somehow return. That fear is GUILT! We already understand that the same decision to choose or indulge in whatever gave unsatisfying results prior will only b...
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